Todd Sanfield: Beyond amazing

Todd Sanfield: Beyond amazing

Although I’m pretty sure even a tie-dyed moo-moo would look good on him, this is definitely more along the lines of how I like to see Mr. Sanfield… Thank you Mr. McDermott for capturing such an amazing man so beautifully. And thank you Mr. Sanfield for sharing yourself with us...
Definitely a bird in a prior life...

Definitely a bird in a prior life…

Seriously, I CANNOT GET ENOUGH of the bling! WTF? Was I a parakeet? A cockatoo? (Probably a better chance of that one…) I’m DYING over this Prada Sequin Open Top Tote (via Neimans). DYING! If I had an extra grand this bad girl would be on a wall- or maybe...
Chanel clutch, I want you...

Chanel clutch, I want you…

Am I a transvestite? (Or maybe a travesty?) I’m gagging for purses today. First it was this delicious little Hermes number, and now I’m ready to kill someone for this a fuchsia quilted satin clutch from Chanel. Seriously though, this thing is incredible; have you ever seen anything more glamorous or...
Suddenly obsessed with Hermes...

Suddenly obsessed with Hermes…

In the past month or os I’ve become a bit obsessed (me? big surprise, I know) with Hermes. Fortunately (for my bank account and partner), the objects of my obsession are, for the most part, insanely out of reach given my place on the current economic strata. Today’s objet de...
Who wants to buy me Hermes?

Who wants to buy me Hermes?

DYING over this insanely blue Hermes Kelly wallet on Portero; if it wasn’t croc I’d totally ask someone to buy it for me. Obviously I’d never use it, but it would look amazing next to my LV Monogram Miroir Sac Plat… I’d also take this Birkin 40 (also in blu...
Wicked Hot Product: The Jabra STONE

Wicked Hot Product: The Jabra STONE

Do you hear what I hear? I doubt it- and you’re definitely not hearing it as stylishly as I am. Unless, of course, you’re wearing the Jabra STONE or Jabra STONE 2. The latest – and hottest – in mobile tech-cessories, this sophisticated, sexy, and super smart Bluetooth earpiece is...
Diesel + DC Comics = Boring lack of sex appeal

Diesel + DC Comics = Boring lack of sex appeal

If they’re trying to sell boring mid-life lack of sex appeal, Diesel is doing an AWESOME job! It took all I had to not close the windown before the end of this video, only to realize that I should have, because there aren’t actually models and the underwear looks about...
Trunk Show interview - UnderwearNewsBriefs.com

Trunk Show interview – UnderwearNewsBriefs.com

The new book was featured today in a post on UnderwearNewsBriefs.com in a Q&A session I did with them recently. If you haven’t checked out the book yet, it’s still available on Amazon. (And makes a fabulous non-denominational-winter-holiday gift!)
Fab.com - Not winning points with me

Fab.com – Not winning points with me

I shop a lot. Almost every day in fact. For myself, for my family and for my clients. I check out a lot of flash sale sites, including “special deal” fashion and home sites- that are often anything but (special deals). I noticed recently that Fab.com is putting credit-card-like thank...
It's a dirty workout day... again

It’s a dirty workout day… again

Did you miss the Tug Toner last week? It “inspired” a couple other posts- via the downfall of YouTube (i.e. its ability to magically steal two hours from your day though suggested videos). This really is priceless though; yes, it’s a bit long for a sexercise skit, but give it...
Holiday Gift Guide: Bring on the Booze!

Holiday Gift Guide: Bring on the Booze!

When showing up for a party, nothing says “I care” quite like liquor! (Well, save for those obnoxious AA-ers.) Grab one of these libations and get the party started! Fit for a King I’m not normally a big whisky drinker, but put an aged sipping blend in front of me...
Delicious and filling... just bring the toothbrush

Delicious and filling… just bring the toothbrush

I’m big on granola in the fall and winter; for me, it’s more satisfying, more filling, and it wards off the hunger pangs longer than cereal once the temperature starts to drop. (And before I start reaching for the oatmeal every day.) Because my personal “granola season” is fairly limited,...
TRIA :: No more hair!

TRIA :: No more hair!

A few months ago I discovered a new gadget that represents a huge leap forward in gay men’s grooming technology. Being the consummate good citizen (and endlessly modest), I decided to give the device a try- all for the benefit of my wonderful EDGE readers of course. What I found...
Burn, Baby; Burn: My favorite candles

Burn, Baby; Burn: My favorite candles

If there’s one thing in life that no one can ever have enough of, it’s… sex! (Actually, all that chaffage can get pretty bad…) If there are two things, however, they’re sex and jewelry; sex and money; or sex and a fabulous wardrobe. Third on the list (or fifth, depending...
Restaurants :: Linger (Denver, CO)

Restaurants :: Linger (Denver, CO)

I’d heard that Linger, in Denver, CO was “LA style” or “NY chic,” and while I understand what they mean, I happen to think it’s simply a stylish, contemporary, relevant restaurant that still “keeps it real” by not trying to be something it’s not – i.e. a NY or LA...
Does it come in platinum?

Does it come in platinum?

Some funny guy decided to “do over” his parents’ kitchen for their silver anniversary. Bless. Let’s hope they have recycling where they live.
Starbucks, I hate you.  (Holiday cups? TODAY!?! Seriously?)

Starbucks, I hate you. (Holiday cups? TODAY!?! Seriously?)

As if child slavery (Wal-Mart), Home Depot, Target and all the other god-forsaken stores wasn’t enough, Starbucks had to prove that they were just as full of sh*tty amerikkkan douchebaggery as the other corporate a$$holes- and bring some “holiday” (read: Christmas) spirit into our lives. THE DAY AFTER HALLOWEEN! Because...
Almost sacrilegious...

Almost sacrilegious…

I almost feel bad posting this (too soon?) but since I think Steve would think it was funny… If you don’t get it, ask a Friend of Dorothy who follows Apple.
France's Loire Valley, Part II

France’s Loire Valley, Part II

If you read Part I last week, you know that I’m getting married to my longtime boyfriend some time next year (date and details TBD, but I’m sure you’ll be invited…). I’ve got my sights set on doing it in the Loire Valley of France. (Not “doing it” doing it…getting...
Worst baby shower cake EVER.

Worst baby shower cake EVER.

This is just disgusting and wrong. It’s not even funny, clever or anything else that would even imply a positive feeling; it’s disgusting and trashy. So much so, in fact, that I’m going to take a Republican position: if you think it’s amusing, YOU are disgusting and trashy. (Actually, I...
France's Loire Valley ~ The perfect place for love...

France’s Loire Valley ~ The perfect place for love…

Since I’m getting married some time next year (see yesterday’s post), and we’re considering a destination wedding in the Loire Valley in France, I thought it would be a good time to share my love of the Loire with you- and the world. I’ve been to the Loire three times,...
Wedding bells! (Will have NO PLACE in my wedding...)

Wedding bells! (Will have NO PLACE in my wedding…)

Family are going to kill me for inserting some bitch-and-jaded in the title of the post announcing my marriage to the world, but whatevs; that’s my life. I’m getting married- or, to be more accurate, “gay married,” since as we all know, that’s a totally different thing. (Actually, based on...
Best "Single Ladies" cover I've heard...

Best “Single Ladies” cover I’ve heard…

I have no idea who Drywater is, but if they’re as interesting as they look – and always sound this good – I’d be interested in finding out more. I love the slight country touch of twang she gives it. Is it just me or did you get the feeling...
OMG this girl's a trip!

OMG this girl’s a trip!

Zhang Jiaojiao is a singer on what I’m guessing is a talent show in China. She’s not Beyonce (and loses it a little in Superbass), but she’s a friggin’ trip! Bless.
Best Coming Out Day gift EVER

Best Coming Out Day gift EVER

This post ended up being much longer – and “deeper” – than intended… please excuse the verbosity; I hope it doesn’t overshadow the sincerity of emotion. And for everyone who’s stepping into the sun” today (in a good way, not like True Blood), congratulations- and Happy Coming Out! Today is...
Worst shoe inserts EVER

Worst shoe inserts EVER

I don’t know how I went from sexy, sexy, sexy posts to “I’m apparently an old man and stuck on discussing shoe inserts and pot filler,” but such is the case. I’ll be sure to step it up in the skin/sex factor department over the next few weeks- promise! But...
National Lumber in Newton, MA :: Still blowing chunks

National Lumber in Newton, MA :: Still blowing chunks

I had hoped to post an update (here, on Yelp!, on National Lumber’s blog, to their Facebook page, etc.) about how great the marketing/PR person was at responding (which is true) and how – after speaking with the owner – the company saw how they wronged my sister-in-law and her...
Useful, but too clunky and ugly to keep…

Useful, but too clunky and ugly to keep…

If you’ve known me for a while, you’re probably assuming this post is about ex-boyfriends, based on the title. And while it’s certainly appropriate for a small handful of exes (and by “small” I mean “many” – not that I’ve had that many!), it’s actually an Amazon review. I tried...
RIP D&G

RIP D&G

I can’t say I was surprised to hear about the (sort of) demise of D&G, the second(ish) line from Italian designers Dolce and Gabbana. What was surprising, however (actually, not really if you know “the boys”), is the ridiculously upbeat (and poorly written) letter they released expressing their “happiness” at...
National Lumber and the decline of customer service

National Lumber and the decline of customer service

My future sister-in-law and her (male) domestic partner recently tried to support a local business, opting to buy paint from National Lumber in Newton, MA rather than a big box store, where the same brand would have meant less cash from their wallets. Big mistake. I don’t know if I...
If you're gay and like Halloween, never go to West Hollywood

If you’re gay and like Halloween, never go to West Hollywood

Queens, listen to me: If you love Halloween (and you’re gay, so of course you do) and you want to continue to love Halloween, DO NOT go to West Hollywood for our sacred day. Think I’m crazy? You’re right, but trust me on this. Going to West Hollywood for Halloween...
Psst... I'm not really a blonde!

Psst… I’m not really a blonde!

This is going to come as a HUGE surprise to anyone who knows me, has met me, or has seen a picture of me (see left), but… I’m not a natural blonde. It’s true; that old stylist adage is right: “If it’s not from your mom’s side and it’s not...
Manx :: Really not a pretty thing

Manx :: Really not a pretty thing

I get that (mostly gay) guys want to look good – god knows I certainly spend enough money and time making sure I do – but has it really come to this?  Yes, it’s not the first time someone’s introduced men’s “firm-up” wear to the (mostly gay) market, but having...
Who's hottest? I'm (reluctantly) going with Becks...

Who’s hottest? I’m (reluctantly) going with Becks…

Serious news source Celebuzz.com is asking readers to vote on who they think is the hottest Armani underwear model- Christian Ronaldo, David Beckham or Rafael Nadal. Although I’m not super hot on any of the three, I’d have to go with Becks only because he’s the only one among the...
Rufskin :: Sexy and a bit trashy - just how we like it!

Rufskin :: Sexy and a bit trashy – just how we like it!

The video’s a bit repetitive, but when the model’s this hot, does it really matter? Behind the scenes snippets from a photoshoot for Fantastics Mag featuring Rufskin (And actually pretty tame for Rufskin!)
Montreal: In a Perfect World...

Montreal: In a Perfect World…

Of course it’s the ultimate cliché; saying that Montreal is the perfect mix of America and Europe. I also hate to describe Montreal as “Europe-lite,” partly because that makes the city sound like it’s the younger, not-quite-as-sophisticated brother, but also because Montreal has a distinct personality all her own. In...
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The Weekly Twitter Breakdown :: 2012-01-22

New on http://t.co/sOrnjkFW :: : Definitely a bird in a prior life… http://t.co/XIW7HDwx # New on http://t.co/sOrnjkFW :: : Todd Sanfield: Beyond amazing http://t.co/3LkeIRMP # Someone please buy me this brinca dāda dollhouse and tiny furniture!!! (I'm serious- now!) http://t.co/et0B8QC5 via @Fab #loves #giftforme # Finally some snow !!! # yeah… To reflect her modesty...
Todd Sanfield: Beyond amazing

Todd Sanfield: Beyond amazing

Although I’m pretty sure even a tie-dyed moo-moo would look good on him, this is definitely more along the lines of how I like to see Mr. Sanfield… Thank you Mr. McDermott for capturing such an amazing man so beautifully. And thank you Mr. Sanfield for sharing yourself with us so generously. (And for letting...
Definitely a bird in a prior life...

Definitely a bird in a prior life…

Seriously, I CANNOT GET ENOUGH of the bling! WTF? Was I a parakeet? A cockatoo? (Probably a better chance of that one…) I’m DYING over this Prada Sequin Open Top Tote (via Neimans). DYING! If I had an extra grand this bad girl would be on a wall- or maybe in the living room to...

The Weekly Twitter Breakdown :: 2012-01-15

Would @MittRomney ban birth control? Demand a yes or no answer. http://t.co/QGxZ2ZLk @CREDOMobile #fem2 #p2 # That's amazing! I hope you got a pic! They must go by a special name for the upper crust… # Oh. My. GOD! HATE @united Just drove 20 miles (w $20 in tolls) per UAL agent to pay $75...

The Weekly Twitter Breakdown :: 2012-01-08

It's snowing !!!! Happy Jason! Let's go for 2' – and working from home tomorrow! # Why can @TiVo not see past the week? Stupid tech. It's not like the networks don't publish their schedules. "Canceling, party of one…" # Bon Jovi 'Bad Medicine.' Awesome. # The journey to insanity begins with 1 mother. (&...
Chanel clutch, I want you...

Chanel clutch, I want you…

Am I a transvestite? (Or maybe a travesty?) I’m gagging for purses today. First it was this delicious little Hermes number, and now I’m ready to kill someone for this a fuchsia quilted satin clutch from Chanel. Seriously though, this thing is incredible; have you ever seen anything more glamorous or sexy? No- you haven’t. I...